Now what do i do with myself?
I've never had anal sex (giving or receiving). Wondering what's the appeal and what it's like. Seems so verboten but something i'm missing out on at the same time. Can anyone chime in here? In so many of the video's and photo's i've seen, it seems like the person being penetrated is flaccid. Does that mean it's not enjoyable, physically? I would think I would be hard if I were into that type of thing. Kinda like I am hard right now thinking about it.
But i'm still in the camp that women are beautiful and i'm attracted to everything about them. Still sorting things out.
More exploration to come... :)
- Jess
I can chime in with my thoughts, my very dirty thoughts. I myself am attracted to women, though I fantasize about being forced to please men by a powerful woman, but doubt that it will go any further than a dildo and my imagination. Anal sex is great fun, my preference is to believe I am being 'pegged' by a dominant female with a strapon, though I also enjoy watching MF porn and playing the part of the woman being pounded. It really can be a turn on, I will not always get hard, but dribble LOADS of precum, I have also had a dry orgasm from anal in the past, and know of people who have properly cum as a result of it.
ReplyDeleteIf you're interested go slow and start small, maybe with fingers or finger sized objects and see how it feels, if you enjoy maybe go up to a butt plug to stretch inside more. When you're comfortable with that you're probably ready for a dildo. Again, go slow and use LOTS and LOTS of lube, basically if you think you have enough, put a little more on. If it helps you, do like me and think of the most beautiful mistress you can, clad in corset and long black gloves, stockings, suspenders, knee-high stiletto boots and a huge strapon being slid into you, slowly, tantalizingly, to its full depth before pounding you senseless.
Serendipity... THANKS a bunch for this! I'm going to give it some thought/pleasure and see how it goes.
ReplyDeletei've never been pounded senseless and imagine it will not go beyond a dildo and my imagination, but i'll give your suggestions a try...
best,
jess
My dirty thoughts: my wife and I have tried anal sex several times, but I am never able to get my cock inside her. So we play with our fingers. She likes to be double penetrated (fingers in her pussy and ass). I like being fingered when I'm getting a blowjob - super-intense orgasms. Like Serendipity said, use lots of lube!
ReplyDeleteI'm not typically attrcated to men and their cocks, but when I'm enfemme I want to experience everything about being a woman, so I have a small vibrating dildo that I use. I love to feel it press against my tight hole, and then push itself inside, filling me as it slides all the way in. I'll turn on the vibrations and slide it in and out, imagined being pounded by a handsome man or sexy woman witha strapon. I try to go as long as I can without touching myself, but eventually I need to. It usually only takes a few strokes and I cum on my fingers and then lovingly lick it all up!
Give it a try sometime and give us the details!
Ciao! Elise